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I'm Obsessed: Is He Interested?

Q: I have been dealing with a man and can not stop thinking of him and am not sure if he has any interest. I am looking for some answers please. My birthday is April 9, 1963.

A: I cast a horary chart for your question, 'Is the man I am thinking of interested in me?' In this chart, cast for the moment of your question, you are represented by Saturn, the man you're thinking of, by the Moon. Quite simply, he is not interested in you. He is interested in a relationship right now, but doesn't consider you as his preferred candidate for his ideal partner. And truth be told, your planetary indicators show even less interest in him than the little he has in you. You are much better off putting this man behind you and continuing the search.

In fact you will find an intelligent man, rather than a caring/domestic one, much more your type. Also, boosting your self-esteem in other ways will help arouse your Venusian nature, and prevent you from looking to a man to make you feel better. Book a facial, change your hairstyle or treat yourself to some new clothes. The better you feel around your femininity, the less you will think about this man.

Looking at your birth chart, this need to pamper yourself is reinforced by the recent tough link Saturn made to your Venus in Pisces. You may well have hit a low about love and romance (and attraction/beauty) through August/September so it's time to get back in the game. So this period in your life finds you with less than you'd hoped relationship wise. Set your limits and start looking. Mature love is a theme of Venus/Saturn so older partners and men in authority positions appeal. Most of all, remember to be the grown up when dating now, and respect your own and others healthy limits about intimacy.

Your progressed Moon has just entered Cancer where it'll spend the next two years or so. This creates an emotional sensitivity -- and a strong desire for traditional love. Be tender with your moods and remember that you may need more down time in the coming months.Time with family, friends is ideal. You may even consider getting a new pet or plant as you have a strong need to take care of something (or someone!) now.and loved ones is ideal. You may even consider getting a new pet or plant as you have a strong need to take care of something (or someone!) now.